In a highly competitive world with everyone running for opportunities, an Alpha Female rises above all, by creating her own reality, and that’s why “the woman warrior who is armed with wit and courage will be among the first to celebrate victory”(Maya Angelou). The concept of Alpha Female has been widely applied in magazines, websites, television, advertisements and books to misinform women regarding the ideal behavior they should have. However, the same doesn’t happen to the description of Alpha Male, which finds social recognition and consent among experts. An Alpha Male is often associated with masculinity, confidence and popularity, while the Alpha Female is commonly interpreted as a bitch, feminist, hooker or lesbian. The discrimination of independent women pursuing their dreams, distorts the understanding of what a woman should be, appear or do, leading to confusion about what men really want. And, while the Publishing, Movie and Marketing Industries profit from the problem with cosmetics and romantic novels, women suffer from the pressure received from peers, relatives and relationships. Taking this reality into account, a research was conducted in order to understand why women aren’t happy and which believes lead to such outcome. At the same time, results were compared with those of women that get more from life and are able to obtain the relationships they always wanted. An analysis of both situations allows a clear observation of which qualities and behaviors a woman should have, leading to the organization of the most important, based on the success of those that have applied this knowledge to change their life and conquer their dreams. Among many social myths, the following chapters will allow an understanding of why some women, independently of their looks and personality, can easily marry the best men, while others aren’t able to keep their own relationships for a long time. Special skills are in demand, due to the amount of lies that have been brainwashing the female brain for the past decades. And, although books and magazines about relationships and seduction are easily found, nearly none presents a realistic and practical definition of Alpha Female. Reality shows that a princess doesn’t live happily ever after without the right prince, she’ll have competition on the way, he won’t choose the best woman and, if she can’t actively pursue him, will end up with a frog, which may in the end cheat with somebody else. Women tend to surpass men in numbers in many social circles, meaning that they risk more if not being competitive. “Life’s a Bitch; you’ve got to go out and kick ass” (Maya Angelou). Destined to the most determined and smartest women, this book shows how to study men, understand their behaviors and select the best. It’s an opportunity to rebuild character, increase self-esteem, gain responsibility and expand in wisdom about relationships. The choice in agreeing with what this books provides implies the acceptance of the right to chase men and refuse the consequences of not doing so, such as waiting forever for the best to fall from the sky. “A woman is like a tea bag; you can’t tell how strong she is until you put her on hot water” (Eleanor Roosevelt).